Tuesday, October 1, 2013

The Ponczoch Family!

We had a FABULOUS with
Kim, Dave and the kids here.
So nice to share some of our love for London with them.
 
Because Kim did such a GREAT job doing a daily Facebook post, I'm just using much of her stuff for my record.  Thanks Kim!  (Sorry if you're bored because you've seen most of it.)
 
Day one: Big Ben, double decker bus, Trafalgar Square, ice cream, Buckingham Palace, St. James's Park, Westminster Abbey & fish & chips. #lovelondon #lovefamily #lovesleep

 
 
 
 Day 2:  Afternoon tea and front row seats to see Wicked, where Elphaba said hello and waved to the girls during curtain call. #lovelondon #lovewicked #love scones #couldgetusedtothis #thanksdadforwatchingzack



Day 3:  Went to Warwick Castle and watched jousting, met princesses and climbed lots of towers.  Also saw Shakespeare's home.  #lovingengland #lovecastles #could get used to this
 
                        

 
 

Day 4: Sneaking off to Hogwarts, Bertie Bott's Every Flavored Beans, National Gallery, English Monopoly, and scones with clotted cream and lemon curd. #loveengland #zackdoesntfeelreadytoleavemefortheschoolyear #englishladythoughtiwasfromireland #couldgetusedtothis #mydadowesmecandy.
 



Day 5: Day of rest... Church, puzzles, play dough, Cluedo (English version of Clue), Sunday dinner. #loveengland#lovefamily #zackneedshisownbedroom#couldgetusedtothis
 

 
 
 
Day 6:  Kensington Palace, Hyde Park, Princess Diana Memorial Playground, and Dave finally joined us#loveengland #lovefamily #loveroyalclothing#tookthebuswithoutmyparents #imgrowingup #couldgetusedtothis

 
 

Day 7: Changing of the guards (kind of...  Tried not to get trampled by the rest of the tourists), Royal Mews, Churchill War Rooms, St James Park, Big Ben, breakdancers, fish & chips, tradional British breakfast.  #loveengland #lovefamily #hatecrowds #lovehavingdavehere #couldgetusedtothis
 

 
 
 
Day 8:  Boat tour on the canal, afternoon with Dave (Westminster Abbey, Westminster Cathedral, Supreme Court and Speakers Corner in Hyde Park) while my mom and the kids prepared a proper afternoon tea for us.  #loveengland #lovefamily #homemadesconesarethebest #couldgetusedtothis

 
 
 
 
Day 9:  Windsor Castle by train and souvenir shopping #bestcastleyet #loveengland #lovefamily #daughterslovetoshop #husbandanddaddont #couldgetusedtothis
 

 
 
 
Day 10:  Royal Albert Hall and train to Hampton Court Palace. #loveengland #lovefamily #neededawholedayatthepalace #historybookscomingtolife #couldgetusedtothis
 
 
 
 
 
Day 11:  St Paul's Cathedral, Tower ofLondon, Tower Bridge, boat ride on the Thames River, and LOTS of London rain. #loveengland #mayhavesetarecordformoststairsclimbedinaday #windbroketwoumbrellas #gladimnotafraidofheights #couldgetusedtothis
 
 
 
 
 

Day 12:  Early church, bus to the South of England, crossed the English Channel via ferry.  Viva France!  #goodbyeengland #myfrenchisveryrusty #idbebetteroffinspain #goodthingmydadspeaksfrench #couldgetusedtothis
 
 
 
 
Day 13:  Drove to Paris, walked down the Champs-Elysees, saw Arc de Triomphe, ate escargot, duck liver and pain au chocolat, and went to the top of the Eiffel Tower.  #lovefamily #jinniesnewfavoritefoodisescargot #eiffeltowerisbestatnight ##lasttimeiwashereiwas15 #couldgetusedtothis
 
 
 
 
Day 14:  Notre Dame, Conciergerie, lots of yummy pastries for lunch (eclairs, mille-feuilles, pistachio almond raspberry macroon, croque-monsieurs, & quiche), the Louvre, boat tour on the Sein, and dad was pic pocked on the metro.  #lovefamily #lovefrenchfood #everyoneissafe #dontmesswithmydad #theguyisinjail #davedoesjustfinewithhislimitedfrench #ispoketotheconductorinspanish #couldgetusedtomostofthis
 
 
 
 
 
Day 15:  Drove to Normandy, visited Utah Beach, Pont du Hoc, and the American Cemetery; ate crepes, croque madame, snails, frog legs & stinky cheese. Slept in a chateau that was occupied by Germans during WWII.  #betterthanparis #historycomingtolife #loveourmilitary #nowifiatthechateau #couldgetusedtothis #cantbelievethisisendingsosoon
 
 

Yup, frog legs at Chateau Baffy
 


Day 16:  Left the Chateau at 5:30 am.  Rental car, taxi, bus, ferry, bus and tube.  Walked into mom & Dads flat at 7:30 pm.  #worstdayofthevacation #buswastwohourslate #iwantachateau #lovelondon #cantbelievethisisendingsosoon
 


 
 
 
Day 17:  Making of Harry Potter Studio, shopping, Jinnie played Bells of Great Britain on a piano in the middle of a train station, last afternoon tea, Harry Potter board game, Picadilly Circus with Dave, and ate treacle tart, sausage & mash and drank elderberry juice.  #lovelondon #lovefamily #needtofindabutterbeerrecipe #couldgetused tothis #cantbelievethisisendingsosoon
 
Practicing spells.
 
Butter beer is delish!
 
 
 Day 18: Packed, pictures at Abbey Road, shopped, kids returned library books & played in the gardens, played dthe London version of Monopoly, and said goodbye. #wenttoofast #lovelondon #lovefamily #missmyparentsalready #heathrowhasthebestkidsareaever #toomuchturbulance #letthejetlagbegin
 



You can see we did a TON and this is just a condensed version. Twas so much fun!
 
I must explain Day 14 a little.
 
As we were hopping on the metro, it appeared a man was sort of helping Rick with the stroller but he was really helping himself with the contents of Rick's pockets. He passed the wallet (which was in his front pocket) off to another man who hopped off the train as the doors were closing. When he took Rick's phone from his little change pocket, Rick felt it and confronted him. Soon we had him emptying his bag onto the floor looking for the wallet too. A woman standing back further said she'd seen him pass it off. Rick grabbed him as the door opened, but he broke away and took off running....never dreaming a gray-haired man could run so fast. A man from our train tripped him up a bit on the stairs and Rick was able to grab him again. Three gendarmes were waiting at the top of the stairs for them. Several people who saw the whole thing stopped and gave statements. The thief, Rick and 4 policemen had the ride of their lives getting to the police station as if it were an emergency. Glad they're still alive. We're told the thief would be before the judge in the morning and straight to jail. Apparently he'd given a false name too and must have had a record cuz they figured it out.
 
A week later a letter was sent to our home address saying the wallet was found. Rick will be back in Paris in a few weeks and will pick it up then.
 
Blah. I used to love Paris.




 


 
 



 

My Heart is Full

I thought I was a grownup.
I thought I was a semi-decent mom.
I thought I was a semi-decent grandma.
But I was wrong.
 
Apparently,
It's all about me!
 
This little miracle is how I figured this out.

 
Lena Patricia White was born on  September 20, 2013.
7 lbs 13 oz, 20 1/2 inches
 
Because of being home in April for Kelsi's wedding and coming home in December for Nathan's wedding, I didn't arrange to come for this new baby.  Rosa Lee's mom lives close enough, plus I'd thought they'd be spending the whole month of September in Cannonville whilst he worked on a project there.  Rosa Lee would have plenty of help, and this far-away mother-in-law wouldn't be
needed.
 
How could I be so stupid?
 
Going when a new baby comes is not about my being helpful for the mom.
It's about me.
 
Me holding the baby.  Me kissing her.  Me smelling her newness.  Me feeling of  her spirit.  Me whispering in her ear.  Me staring into her eyes.  Me.  Me.  Me.
 
Now I know.
 
Now you know.
 
Sorry to my daughters and daughters-in-law...
It's all about me.
 
Four new granddaughters in 51 weeks!
Of course my heart is full.
Life is good.
 
 


Downton Abbey-ish Family History, and Little Miracles

So, a lot of months ago I stumbled upon this teaser in
"The Hertford Mercury & Reformer" dated 24 Oct 1846:

"Mr John Hughlings, Chemist, of Hertford, said the deceased came to his house and asked for two penney worth of arsenic to poison rats.  Witness refused to let..."

That was it.  The teaser.
  I would have to pay to get the rest of the story.

 A death?  Arsenic?  John Hughlings involved?
(An earlier post shows a picture of his possible Chemist shoppe in Hertford.) 

This felt a little like Mr Bates being accused of poisoning his wife with arsenic.
(A reference to Downton Abbey for those of you who are confused.)

It carried on for months, with me unable to figure out getting a copy without paying....
until I asked a friend who happened to have a subscription to the site I needed.

And the answer is.....

He was found innocent!!!!
  Thank heavens he covered his bases and made her bring in a witness saying she was using the arsenic to poison rats.  I feel sad for her friend who vouched for her.
She was wrong.  She must have felt terrible.
The verdict was "suicide while in a state of temporary insanity".

One day I will ask him if this influenced his leaving his occupation
as a Chemist to become a Scripture Reader.

This John Powell Hughlings is the brother to our Ann Hughlings Pitchforth.

If you can't read this and want to, go to:

http://whitefamilytrees.org/showmedia.php?mediaID=806&medialinkID=1343

Yup, that's my Family History website.
You ought to check it out.
whitefamilytrees.org

Have I ever said that I love Family History?
  Well, I do.
 
And I love miracles.
 
One evening while serving at the Hyde Park Stake Family History Centre, I was searching on a 19th Century British Newspaper site that I can access there.  Suddenly I stumbled upon this:
 
Under Marriages it says:
 
BOWES-HUGHLINGS--Dec. 18, at Holy Trinity Church, Southport, by the Rev. O.S. Hope, Councillor I Bowes, of Pendleton, Manchester, to Harriet, widow of Professor Hughlings, of Elphinstone College, Bombay.
 
WHAT?
 
Professor John Powell Hughlings had been married?
(He is the son of the above storied John Powell Hughlings.)
 
I'd finally found an obituary which extolled all his wonderful virtues,
and not one word about a spouse.
 
And why in the world would his widow's re-marriage say so much about him?
 
Just a week or two before I had thought I was finished with JPH and filed all his paperwork.
He had taught many years in India, gotten sick,
and died in Australia where he went to recuperate.
After all my searching, I had determined he never married.
 
But he had.
This record needed to be found.
So Harriet could be found.
And their marriage record found.
And their sealing reserved.
Now I think I can file away John Powell Hughlings.
 
 
 I love this quote by Melvin J Ballard:
 
    "You may be confident that your deceased people know where their records are, and you can obtain help through inspiration from them in locating these records...  And there are thousands of them, hundreds of thousands and millions of them in the spirit world who long to receive this gospel and have been waiting hundreds of years for their deliverance....  They know where their records are, and I testify to you that the spirit and influence of your dead will guide those who are interested in finding those records...  If there is anywhere on earth anything concerning your kindred dead, you will find it."  
                                                      Sermons & Missionary Services of Melvin Joseph Ballard, p 230